It took me about two and a half years to master my dating life to the point where beautiful women were consistently trying to ‘boyfriend me up.’
I was elated. It felt amazing to have these beautiful women chasing me and trying to get me to commit to them.
Of course, after a while, I decided to try my hand at ‘settling down’... and realized that there was an entire new territory of masculine-feminine dynamics that I hadn’t even studied yet:
How to make relationships work for the long term.
Now, at this point, I’d already jumped into (and sank) my first 10-year marriage with my first wife.
(And let me tell you, it ended like a spectacular dumpster fire. So as far as ‘failures’ go when it comes to relationships, I really feel like I was leading the pack.)
Back then, I really struggled with masculine attraction. So naturally, I figured that if I ‘figured out dating,’ then happy, healthy, fulfilling, sexy long-term relationships with women would follow as a natural byproduct, right?
Boy, was I wrong.
After a few attempts at monogamy (and even some forays into open relationships and polyamory), I realized that something wasn’t working.
I was getting all kinds of dates, and I was getting ‘girlfriends’ (sometimes multiple girlfriends at a time, even), but none of these relationships were really ‘sticking.’
Why? What was I missing?
Frustrated with my seemingly ‘half-way successful’ results, I rolled up my sleeves and went back to the drawing board.
I dug out those old books on masculine-feminine dynamics, human mating behavior, evolutionary psychology, and more—and I started asking a different question.
Now that I know exactly how to get quality women to want to be with me in the first place, how do I get them to want to stay with me?
And how do I maintain the type of relationship (long term) that's also positive and fulfilling for me, ensuring that I'll want to stay with her as well?
See, I didn’t want to keep running the ‘one night stand’ or ‘summer fling’ games.
I wanted something deeper than that.
I was ready to trade in my ‘player’s handbook’ for a committed, monogamous relationship with an amazing woman.
I was ready to try my hand at building an amazing life with someone special—and this time, I wanted to get it right.
And honestly, as men, I believe that somewhere deep inside of us, we all desire this.
It’s 100% natural.
But how do you make it happen?
How do you learn to keep the desire from burning out, to command your partner’s respect on a daily basis, and to become the type of man she’s just as crazy about 10 years down the road as she was on the first night?
And perhaps more importantly—how do you become the type of man that no woman would ever want to leave, divorce, break-up with, or lose?
(I discuss the crucial basics of these things in my Dating in the Wild course, and I expound on them in The Modern Masculinity Map. But in this course, I go several levels deeper to paint the entire picture, all the way down to the foundations of human pair-bonding behaviors and how masculine-feminine behavioral filters completely shape our power to maintain, deepen, and strengthen the desire in our relationships.)
Well, these are the exact questions I set out to answer in this latest adventure—and my research, fact-finding, and trial-error testing certainly didn’t disappoint.
At the beginning of my research for this course, I personally struck out on a new kind of adventure in my own life.
I wanted to find a deep, meantinful, committed relationship with an amazing woman and begin the ‘tribe building’ phase of life with her.
But I didn’t just want to ‘make it work.’
I wanted to crush it.
Little did I know how powerful this research would prove to be.
By the time this course content was complete (the research for which took me about 4 years of intentional study and testing), I had not only found a girlfriend—but had also moved her into my house, gotten engaged to her, and am now planning our elopement to a beach in Mexico.
And every single day, I’m reminded of just how much she loves me, and how crazy she is about me.
She begs me to come to bed and cuddle her—she wants to do everything together—if another girl so much as looks at me twice, she’s like a hawk on high alert—and best of all, she works super hard for our relationship every single day.
And even after 3 years together, her desire for me only continues to grow (and this is manifested in her behavior toward me).
But on the flipside—I’ve also discovered that this process taught me how to help myself make my own relationship amazing for me as well.
The concepts, strategies, and tenets laid out in this course will empower you to give your partner everything she needs to remain in a fully ‘feminine frame,’ to maintain genuine burning desire from both sides of the equation, and to keep the ‘spark’ alive for you as well as for her (due to the strength, depth, and quality of the relationship).
Sure, relationships are challenging. But they don’t have to be rocket science.
The key is to understand the baseline masculine filters that women look for in the behaviors of the men they date—and it really all comes down to this:
Men who exhibit strong masculine relationship behavior filters are never going to struggle with women wanting to leave them, while men who try to deploy ‘feminine’ relationship behavior filters are bound to suffer breakup after breakup.
I’ll be honest with you:
When I first started formulating these theories, I thought to myself:
“Could it really be this simple? Surely if it were this simple, everyone would know how to do it.”
But the deeper I got into the process, the more I realized how ‘forgotten’ this masculine relationship-building knowledge had become in our modern world.
There are hints of it in ancient religious texts. We can observe it when we see animals pair-bonding in the wild (to a certain extent), and once you learn how to look for these ‘behavioral filters’ on an automatic basis, you’ll never see couples at parties the same again.
This course will change your entire relationship paradigm—and if you follow the curriculum, I can tell you from experience that it’s bound to change your life forever.
Welcome to the Relationship Success Formula—100% tried and tested by me, in my own life.
Every one of the steps, strategies, philosophies, and concepts I espouse in this course have literally been formulated through research and tested by me in my own life, and have proven to be massively successful.
And in this course, I distill 4+ years of hardcore research, study, trial, and error down into 6+ hours of video lectures to teach you everything you need to know to transform your relationship life today.
Whether you’re already married or just getting started on your own masculine journey, this course is going to revolutionize your ability to get women obsessed with you for the long term—and it’s not a joke.
I’ve done it. And now, I’m here to teach you how to do the same thing.
Welcome to the Relationship Success Formula. In this module, you’ll get a brief introduction to the course, and then dive right in to answer a crucial question—what is the significance of a high-quality relationship?
Understanding how to define, quantify, and categorize relationships is crucial to understanding the goals of those relationships. And that’s exactly what you’ll learn in this module.
In this module, you’ll learn in-depth strategies for selecting and vetting the best possible long-term partner for relationship success. The quality of your partner will determine, to a massive extent, the quality of your relationship—so this module is critical.
In this module, you’ll learn time-tested strategies for how to build and maintain your relationship to the best of your ability, ensuring maximum mutual desire, continued attraction, respect, and relational happiness (even months, years, or even decades down the road).
Breakups aren’t easy. In this module, you’ll gain clarity and understanding for how to identify when they should (or shouldn’t) occur, and how to deploy masculine wisdom to navigate and keep from ‘freezing up’ due to confusion and fear.
In this module, you'll get some final (but crucial) words of advice that I’ve learned through many relationship experiences, research, studying, and trial and error.
I poured my all into this course and I'm confident it's going to revolutionize your relationships. But if for ANY reason you decide this course isn't for you (including if you simply change your mind), contact me within 30 days of purchase and I'll give you a 100% refund. No questions asked.
Your Reformed Dork Turned Dating Coach

Any man interested in learning how to positively embrace their inner masculinity to utilize the concepts of natural, evolutionary masculinity to succeed at long-term committed relationships with women. If you'd like to increase the desire, attraction, and respect you get in your relationships while also making them stronger, happier, safer, sexier, and more fulfilling than ever, this course is for you.
Not from me. This course is a consolidation of all of my experience and learning in the relationships space into one video framework that I haven't made available anywhere else. Yes, you can hunt down snippets of this info online elsewhere. But my course will save you hundreds of hours of time connecting the jigsaw pieces, and only brings you the information you need to improve the success of your relationships.
No. And frankly, I believe that any dating course that makes such a promise shouldn't really be trusted. To be clear---if you're not willing to put the work in then you shouldn't bother purchasing this course. What I can guarantee is that you'll understand precisely what you need to do to lean into your masculinity to strengthen your relationships. The rest will be up to you and your own willingness to put the work in.
How does forever sound? You bought the course and so you'll have access for life, anytime you want. And because this isn't a membership or subscription course, you'll also get the course updates and new lessons for free forever.
Absolutely not. Complete it in at your own pace. These are lifelong lessons here, after all.
Yep. Try the whole course. If you're not happy with it for any reason, or you simply change your mind within 30 days of purchase, email me and I'll send you all of your money back with no questions asked.
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